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Why your high performers fail as managers, and a framework to fix it

Written by The Arbinger Institute | Nov 23, 2025 4:32:37 PM

The “Star Player” Trap

We’ve all been there. You have an employee who crushes it. They hit every deadline, exceed every quota, and have the technical skills of a wizard. They are your undeniable "star player."

So, naturally, when a team lead position opens up, you hand it to them. It feels like the logical next step—a reward for their hard work.

Six months later? It’s a disaster.

The team is disengaged. Morale is tanking. Your star player—now a flailing manager—is either micromanaging everyone into the ground or doing all the work themselves because "it's just faster if I do it."

You’re left wondering: How did someone so competent become such a liability?

Here’s the deal. You didn’t hire the wrong person. You evaluated them using the wrong lens. You measured their ability to produce results individually, but management requires the ability to produce results collectively.

Those are two entirely different skill sets—and, more importantly, two entirely different mindsets.

 

The Real Problem: They’re Playing a Different Game

The villain here isn't a lack of training or "soft skills." It’s the Inward Mindset.

Many individual high performers succeed by focusing intensely on their tasks, their goals, and their reputation. They view others through a transactional lens:

  • Vehicles to help them finish a project.
  • Obstacles slowing them down.
  • Irrelevancies to be ignored.


When they’re solo, this self-focus can sometimes look like drive. But when you put them in charge of people? That same mindset becomes toxic. They see their direct reports as vehicles to hit their new numbers. They see struggling employees as obstacles to their success.

They might have high capability (skills), but they have low impact (helpfulness).

If you’re running an organization with layers of management and cross-functional dependencies, you cannot afford leaders who treat people like objects. You need leaders who can see the humanity of their team and enable their success.

 

Capability vs. Impact: The Missing Metric

In most organizations, promotion criteria are heavily weighted toward capability—skills, knowledge, and aptitude.

"Can they do the job?"

But leadership isn't about doing the job. It's about helping others do theirs. This requires measuring impact—the effect a person has on the success of others.

Promoting a "high capability/low impact" employee sends a dangerous signal to your organization: We care more about your personal stats than the team's success.

 

The Plan: Use the 3A+ Framework to Evaluate Potential

At Arbinger, we use a tool called the 3A+ Development Framework to get a true read on performance.

Before you sign off on that next promotion, start by evaluating your candidate against these three dimensions:

1. Capability (3-2-1) Does this person have the skills and aptitude for the new role?

  • 3: Fully capable (All necessary capabilities to succeed in the role).
  • 2: Capable with training (With training, could be a 3).
  • 1: Not reasonably capable (Can't reasonably become a 3).

2. Impact (A-B-C) This is the game-changer. How does this person affect the ability of others to do their work?

  • A (Positive Impact): They actively help others succeed. They share information, clear roadblocks, and elevate the team. Their colleagues want to work with them.
  • B (Neutral Impact): They do their job but don't necessarily enable others. They stay in their lane.
  • C (Negative Impact): They create friction. They hoard resources, blame others, or leave a wake of frustration.

3. Effort (+/-) Do they apply themselves fully?

  • +: Consistently diligent and focused; gives necessary attention to achieve objectives.
  • -: Inconsistent or checked out; does not give necessary attention to objectives.

The Golden Rule of Promotion. Many "star performers" are actually 3C+ employees: Highly capable (3) and hard-working (+), but with a negative impact on others (C).

Do not promote a 3C. If you do, you are scaling dysfunction. You are putting someone in power who excels at the expense of others.

Instead, look for the 2A+. They might need some technical training (2), but their impact on the team is positive (A), and their effort is high (+). Skills can be taught. An outward mindset—the desire to help others succeed—is the foundation of leadership.

 

What Success Looks Like

When you start promoting based on Impact as much as Capability, the dynamic shifts.

  • Teams align: Because managers are focused on enabling success, not hoarding credit.
  • Silos dissolve: Leaders look sideways to help peers, not just down at their own metrics.
  • Retention rises: People don't leave companies; they leave managers who don't see them.

Stop guessing. Look at the Impact score. That’s where your future leaders are hiding. Don’t limit the 3A+ to just promotions; implement it with your team to have monthly, meaningful conversations.

 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

 

Q: What if my high performer is the only one with the technical skills to lead the team?

A: This is a common trap. Promoting a "3C" (high skill, negative impact) usually costs more in turnover and morale than you gain in technical expertise. It is often better to leave the seat open or hire externally than to promote a leader who will dismantle the team's culture. Alternatively, create a track that rewards technical mastery without people management responsibilities.

Q: Can a "3C" employee change their impact score?

A: Absolutely. Most "C" impact comes from an Inward Mindset, which is learned, not innate. With the right coaching and tools, high performers can shift their mindset, realize their negative impact, and become "A" players. But you must address the mindset before the promotion, not after.

Q: How do I measure "Impact" objectively?

A: It’s less subjective than you think. Ask the people they work with. Ask their peers: "Does working with this person make your job easier or harder?" "Do they share information or hoard it?" Impact is visible in the results of the people around the employee.